I Hope It Works

I’ve been thinking a lot lately regarding some sort of things regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. I can’t say that we are on the rocks but for me, there is a little problem, which I think he is not aware.

He’s been going out with his friends that I don’t personally know very often. They stay in his friend’s house over night while drinking and having fun together. I know that there is nothing wrong with that, but what annoys me is the fact that whenever he asks permission to me if he can go out with his friends, he can’t accept a NO answer. I mean, whenever I won’t allow him, he always gets mad and he will treat me coldly so I’ll just end up allowing him.

And so, I decided to make a new setup. I told him that he can go out whenever he likes without even asking for permission and he won’t be able to hear any rants from me.
Honestly, it’s hard in my part to do this. It’s not that I don’t want him to enjoy his life with his friends’ company but rather, I want to him to set his limitations and boundaries and know when enough is enough.

I hope that he’ll soon realize what I’m trying to imply with this. I don’t want this to be the start of a big quarrel.